Were you there?

DATE OR WAIT?

How do you choose to love someone? or do you really choose? well, sometimes it happens and then what? don't you activate your rational side of the mind thinking about all the pros and cons of the relationship? so what do you call this? a well thought act of loving? or can you really even call it love?

If someone asks you.. so what kind a guy would you like to be with.. you have this long list... mentally you have formed a picture of this perfect guy you are looking for. But yes, life doesn't give everyone everything. So then what do you do? compromise. Start liking someone who really exists and fits a bit into things you wished your perfect partner will have. And sometimes, you just start loving someone totally opposite to your so called perfect man, and at the end you realize that he is just the opposite but still he makes you feel so happy.

How do you choose? how do you love? how do you fall for someone? is it wrong to expect? is it just a phase? are you being stupid if you choose to wait for that perfect someone?